Dating Diva

The main reason I insist on women slowing down with the sexual dating merry go round is because women don’t realize that sex clouds our judgment. This discovery is usually made a day last and a dollar short, figuratively speaking. The act of sex is intrinsically tied to our feelings as women. Think about all the women you know, have known or heard about who’ve been over-tolerant of disrespectful and abusive behavior…all because he knows how to handle his biz in bed. Please know that some men count on this, using their peenie skills as blinders to their faults.

Ultimately, if sex is decided upon despite my maternal warnings, be aware that you’re not in a relationship just because you’ve chosen to have relations. Dude may be the only one you’re humping but don’t make the mistake of believing you’re the only one in his line-up. Men don’t see sex the way we do, therefore dealing with a man from a woman’s (emotional) standpoint is an error in judgment. For men, sex isn’t more than a physical release, right up there with dropping the kiddies off at the pool or the relief after a good, long hard tinkle. Unless he states it clearly, there is no emotional investment made just from the ding-a-ling alone, so assume there is.

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